Sign + Mind
The sign of Gemini is ruled by the planet Mercury, which, like the messenger god of the crossroads (Greek: Hermes) for whom it’s named, represents the zodiacal Principle of Consciousness and the 3rd House attributes of commerce, communion and communication.
Ancient traditions likened him to the logos, or word of God, and thus he came to represent the “pure intelligence” of the universe.
It is fitting that Gemini is the first air (mental) sign of the zodiac, one for whom the cognitive faculty is key.
One look at Gemini female and it’s clear: She is a woman with much in the way of machinations going on in her mind.
As her planet’s glyph suggests, with its tiny feelers and antennae, Gemini is forever looking to “put a bug” in someone’s ear.
Whereas Gemini man is caught up in his own need for buzz and stimulation, Gemini woman seeks to incite such excitement in others, if not send them into a complete frenzy.
The Twins symbol is representative of the strict division between two distinct expressions of her personality, both of which emerge in the Gemini woman at different times in her life, if not within any given day.
You might say Gemini guys are simultaneously both sides of their duality (and every point in between), while the Twins woman is either one extreme of herself or the other.
On first introduction, she makes a clear-cut impression-but fittingly that’s only half the story.
When next one meets her, she may have made a complete switcheroo being not just slightly altered, but completely opposite in demeanor. Gemini pours on her separate personalities as something of a defense mechanism.
She can sit at a dinner party and, quite literally, turn a separate face to the guests seated to her right from that to those at her left.
She’s tough as leather or frilly as lace, depending on the way she perceives those around her and how they may be of use.
If playing the guileless, giggly waif works to her best advantage, so be it – but if being the wickedest witch in the Western world is called for, she can pull that attitude out of her pointed hat faster than you can say “my little pretty.”
And though it will typically take a lifetime, Gemini works toward integrating these alternate sides of her rather borderline personality, often for the sake of her own mental health.
For Gemini woman risks depersonalization, a condition characterized by a “distortion in how one’s self, and body feel,” as a result of splitting off into her signature separate characters, a predisposition that often surfaces full force during her early adolescence.
But fear not: She will make it her existential mission to “get herself together,” fostering increased integrity, in every sense of the word.
In biblical terms, the sign of Gemini is associated with dualism: reality as perceived upon biting into the apple swiped from the tree of knowledge of good and evil.
The zodiac’s first (cardinal-fire) sign of Aries is likened to that of the big-bang Adamic creation, while the second (fixed-earth) Taurus is associated with garden-variety Edenic delight, which provided the perfect backdrop for temptation.
Gemini, it follows, is all about munching on experience – awareness being another of the many traits associated with the Gemini 3rd Astrological House.
Indeed, Twins of both sexes are like Adam and Eve made newly conscious of themselves and their immediate surroundings, yet another 3rd House concern. Gemini woman could be considered the embodiment of the two-faced Eve a self-empowered-female-cum-troublemaking-temptress, personal-fall-victim-cum- progenitor-of-humanity.
To be sure, she is no walk in the park. Gemini is rarely the innocent she pretends to be.
Even as a young girl, she’s often attracted to older, slick, if not shady types on whom she develops killer crushes, seemingly seeking sweet corruption.
Sometimes, like Eve, she’s bitten off more than she can comfortably chew. Meanwhile, she turns around and tosses the apple at innocent guys whom she, in turn, might seduce into action. It’s the same in business: She is often the consummate agent, holding “prized” clients in the palm of her hand for others to fight over.
Sometimes, she is that creative property herself, pitting people against one another for her talented participation.
She can be both catalyst and monkey wrench, a dream come true or someone’s worse nightmare.
Whatever the case, she approaches life with an unapologetic “deal with me” demeanor.
Gemini is the only zodiacal sign with the quality-element combination of mutable-air, air and fire signs being masculine from the zodiacal perspective.
As a female in a masculine sign, therefore not aligned with the gender polarity of her sign, Gemini woman doesn’t embody the mutable-air status, rather she projects it onto others, keeping them guessing if not initiating a flurry of disinformation in the process.
As well, mutable-air signifies a versatile, changeable, or indeed random mentality, just as it denotes the Mercurial ether or ethos, a world of pure information, intelligence, and creed.
Gemini guy is himself a walking-talking bit of this buzzy atmosphere, engaged in a constant exchange of ideas and dollars, wheeling and dealing his way through life, negotiating experience with the street-smart, swashbuckling piracy of Robin Hood or Peter Pan.
The same cannot be said for Gemini woman: The world in which she lives is filled with people who must constantly negotiate her.
Gemini is as unpredictable as a pixie after all, she is the astrological daughter of winged Mercury, god of trickery and magic.
Gemini woman’s particular talent is to perplex, making people peg her as one thing only to shape-shift into another.
If Gemini man is Peter Pan, she is the zodiac’s Tinker Bell, that little brownie with the twinkly but maddening personality who is all sweetness and light when in love, but woe to any foe who might stand in her way—-particularly those wholesome Wendies of the world for whom her heartthrob might throw her over.
Like Tink’s, Gemini’s attempts at cruelty might come off as merely comical. Besides which, with her being so subtle a mischief maker, one is often hard-pressed to pin Gemini down as an out-and-out culprit of chaos.
One must simply cope with whatever confusion she creates.
This is, after all, what this mind-alterer is after.
Just as all humanity has dealt with the metaphoric fallout of Eve’s actions, so, too, does every person with whom Gemini comes in contact have to alter (mutability) their own thoughts (air) to accommodate her.
In Greek mythology, the goddess Eris (Discord), having not been invited to some divine soiree, gets even with the party planners by chucking an apple (what else?) into the proceedings, having scribbled upon it “For the fairest goddess among you,” or some such provocative statement.
Long story short: Athena, Hera, and Aphrodite all think the apple is for them.
So they find this cute shepherd boy from Troy, called Paris, to decide; the goddesses bribe him with gifts: Athena offers wisdom, Hera promises wealth and power, and Aphrodite puts forth the most beautiful woman in the world, Helen (henceforth of Troy), whom Paris picks, instigating all-out war (Eris’ ultimate goal to be sure).
In terms of archetype, Gemini woman is Eris, just as she is the Eve of expulsion.
To boot, she’s all three of those über-goddesses as well.
(As a mutable sign, Gemini seeks to negotiate and indeed integrate all the female energies that come before her in the two previous signs, personified by Athena, Hera, and Aphrodite, to be exact.)
But it doesn’t stop there: Gemini is most poignantly the living prototype of the victimy Helen herself; but no less so is she the personification of her vengeful twin sister, Clytemnestra.
As a mutable sign Gemini combines the energies of the two signs that precede it on the wheel (every third sign of the zodiac is mutable and does this, rounding out each of the astrological quadrants).
In this case, Gemini combines the aggressive, objective, masculine force of Aries with the come-hither, subjective, feminine energy of Taurus. Aries is ruled by planet Mars, named for the war god, and Taurus by Venus, the goddess of love.
Gemini combines these dualistic forces of love and war, poignantly personified in the character of Helen, for whom the love of various suitors presaged the Trojan War.
Helen means “torch,” something that every Greek hero carried for her, the metaphoric flame to which every Gemini woman, like a tiny moth, is drawn.
Helen certainly flirted with danger and ultimate disaster as every Greek suitor for her hand in marriage swore an oath to protect her, no matter who was granted this sexy little gift as a wife. The sign of Gemini is associated with the age group 14-21, a time of courtship, which manifests in the Twins guy as elaborate ritual wooing displays akin to those of birds of paradise.
Okay, time to tie all this into a neat little Geminian package: Not only is Gemini’s archetypal Helen a mutable collage of the Aries and Taurus female prototypes, the ultimate gift bestowed to Paris, not to mention a little baggage needing to be negotiated and fought over, she is also part bird (flight being a symbol of immortality as Zeus fathered her in the form of a swan) and she is a twin, with a rather conniving female counterpart in her sister Clytemnestra, whose name just so happens to mean “divine courtship.”
The mythical twins who make up the sign of Gemini are the brothers Castor and Pollux, not so much twins as they are quadruplets: Zeus wanted to sleep with the goddess Leda, who was married to a mortal king, and so he took on that swan guise.
Nine months later Leda lays two eggs – in one are her mortal children, Castor and Clytemnestra, in the other are her divine kids, Pollux and Helen.
That Castor is never mentioned in the same breath without Pollux, while hardly anyone associates Helen of Troy with Queen Clytemnestra of Greek tragedy fame, is terrifically telling when it comes to the respective natures of Gemini man and Gemini woman. The myth of Castor and Pollux is a story of struggle between mortality and immortality, and of the need to strike a bargain so that these inseparable brothers might remain together—all of which is mirrored in the Twins guy’s psyche.
When it comes to these twin girls, it is their division from one another, and indeed their diametrically opposed natures, that speak to the Gemini woman’s condition: Helen is the consummate passive, the face that launched a thousand ships, while Clytemnestra is depicted as a violent plotter and killer of her husband, Agamemnon, whose own brother, Menelaus, is Helen’s groom whom she dumped when ditching out of Greece with that pretty boy Paris.
Taken together you have the Geminian female personality, the perfect amalgam of passive and aggressive: In the girl Twins of the zodiac, represented by Helen and Clytemnestra, we see yet another example of the combined mutable forces of subjective and objective realities.
The sign of Gemini, associated with that age group 14-21, is characterized by this stage in a girl’s life when she is on a hormonal seesaw between the alternating duality of childhood and emerging adulthood.
Metaphorically speaking, the Twins girl is in a perpetual state (read: rage) of adolescence, well into her old age. (Hello, Joan Collins. See you soon, Liz Hurley.)
She is an angst-ridden lady locked into a state of freshly awakening awareness, as if every circumstance is one of new, and therefore momentous, import.
She is acutely aware of experience, and yet she will never readily admit to being “experienced” per se, particularly as concerns sex.
The most apropos literary representation of the Twins brand of womanhood is embodied in the character Lolita, Vladimir Nabokov’s provocative teen.
Herein, we have a character smack-dab in the age group associated with the sign, hovering at the crux of maturity, the proverbial human crossroads of development from child into adulthood. Lolita is blatantly sexual, but she’s still young enough to feign naiveté.
That is Gemini woman, forever toying with that Mercurial character smack-dab in the age group associated with the sign, hovering at the crux of maturity, the proverbial human crossroads of development from child into adulthood.
Lolita is blatantly sexual, but she’s still young enough to feign naiveté.
That is Gemini woman, forever toying with that Mercurial crossroads, walking a perpetual fine line between vulnerability and perpetration.
As such, she forces others to determine what the crux of her being is—in other words, to suss out the “decisive factor” in her personality.
Which isn’t easy: Like Helen and Clytemnestra, the Gemini represents both triumph and trouble, and any association with her is steeped in such irony.
Taking up with her is akin to kidnapping a killer: One must always negotiate Gemini’s nearly diabolical diametrics.
Consider such famous females of the sign as Judy Garland, Marilyn Monroe, Isadora Duncan, Josephine Baker, Sadie Frost, Kathleen Turner, La Toya Jackson, Angelina Jolie, Anne Heche, Stevie Nicks, Joan Collins, Wallis Simpson, Michelle Phillips, just to name a few of the Twins women known for being as potentially disturbing (to themselves if not to others) as they are creatively gifted.
In business, Gemini is a bulldozer in barrettes.
In love, she is Lolita, a cutesy diminutive form of the name Delores, meaning “sorrow”—a seeming innocent who’ll rip your soul to shreds as soon as look at you—a provocative pixie licking the proverbial lollipop all the while making a man wonder if she’s staring at his crotch.
She tears people, particularly men, in two: The dualistic character who lusts after Lolita is fittingly named Humbert Humbert.
Unwittingly doing her bidding, he is part lecher, part lackey. Gemini woman possesses that same power of manipulation, a talent she began to hone at just around the same age as Lolita (that is, when readers first meet that wanton waif).
Indeed, the adolescent Twins girl may become the living Nabokov nightmare for her parents, whose unfortunate reactions to their daughter set in motion the wheels of Gemini’s personality polarization in the first place.
Like Gemini boy, the Twins girl grows up in a family where the father is the absolute ruler, albeit a practically nonparticipatory one.
In fact, Gemini isn’t much parented at all.
Her mother is often caught up in her own life, involved in some business or study, if not struggling with emotional issues.
There is little in the way of family ritual, and Gemini girl is left, in part, to her own devices.
Rather than its fostering independence, the Twins girl feels overlooked.
As a masculine sign, Gemini is naturally aligned to the ideologies and sentiments of her father, though she clashes with him, too.
Often MIA, he is a covert character indulging in secret activity – many a Gemini’s father is hiding an addiction or sexuality issue.
With her mother, a sisterly relationship is engendered whereby a close emotional bond involves a good deal of bickering.
In the spirit of role reversal, Gemini feels parental, if not sometimes a bit pitying toward her mother.
On top of all this, the 3rd House rule of brothers and sisters becomes a keynote in Gemini girl’s life, if not a thorn in her side.
She never blames her parents for a lack of love.
Instead, she points the finger at siblings, whom she cites as having caused her life to be less than idyllic. Gemini is one of those rare birds who could easily shove her fellow fledglings out of the nest.
She wants every bit of her parents’ attention, and when she doesn’t get it, she lashes out – the quintessentially difficult teenager, Gemini might be in a nasty funk that lasts for years, as bitchy to other students as she is unbearable to other kids in her family.
But all this bile is typically a mask to hide deep hurt.
Though Gemini embraces her father’s sneaky modus operandi, her emerging lifestyle outside the family usually involves activities that her father would find unacceptable, especially when it comes to relationships with boys. Gemini’s sexuality develops early, and she is drawn to older bad-boy rogue or hoodlum types.
Indeed, in a nod to Gemini’s air-sprite archetype, she can be, like Mercury orbiting closest to the sun, attracted to fiery situations, that moth to a flame. Thus she all too often gets burned. Her sign’s association with visceral awareness manifests as an unquenchable curiosity, such that she is typically intrigued by people from the proverbial other side of the tracks.
She may enter sexual relationships with characters her father would find unsavory – Dad is often blatantly biased, if not outright bigoted, a projection of his own repression.
In this way, too, Gemini emerges as two people: the eternally dutiful daughter, and the naughty, sexually knowing ingenue.
Unfortunately, her own needs often get overlooked in an effort to satisfy the expectations that she imagines are being projected onto her.
As Gemini matures, she becomes something of a caretaker to her mother, specifically in the sense of doing her mother’s thinking, affectionately bossing her around much in the way she witnessed her dictatorial father doing in the past.
Emotionally, and indeed sexually, Gemini tends to shut down or, on the other side of the spectrum, act out in ways that could only be considered a cry for attention.
In many cases, being “trouble” is her way of getting back at the world for feeling robbed of tenderness. Appearing and acting provocative, the Geminian Lolita invites sexual attention, subconsciously hoping to fill the emotional void left from a lack of fatherly affection.
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