GEMINI
May 21-June 20
THE FEMALE
She’s a one-girl harem. Ten women would be hard put to it to match her virtuosity. Like a genie in a bottle, each time you summon her up an entirely different woman will appear to mystify, delight, beguile, and enchant you.
She can fix and hold the attention of almost anyone, for she is a delightful conversationalist, witty, provocative, charming. She is also a sympathetic listener who will become very interested in your problems. Tell her your ambitions, your desires, your fears and prepare yourself for answers. Some think it presumptuous to try to solve other people’s problems by offering their solutions. Not Gemini, who loves to analyze situations, dissect motivations, offer advice.
She makes friends easily, but is not usually interested in a long-term, more demanding relationship.
She will devote a great deal of time and attention to keeping her friends happy. Depend on her for the quick charming note, the timely telephone call, the apt compliment. She will wear her heart on her sleeve for any friend to see-but for none to possess.
She wants everyone to like her, although she does not necessarily like everyone. Basically, she resents it if someone takes too much of her time or continues to burden her with a problem that she has already solved—to her satisfaction.
She continually seeks new outlets for her abundant energy and exuberance. She will go anywhere on a moment’s notice without weighing the pros and cons, and she will often make important decisions on the same quicksilver basis. She tends to rely on her reflexes rather than her judgment.
She finds it rather hard to stick to one task because her interests are always straying to the next. Nothing fascinates her more than novelty. As a result, she often feels that she is disorganized. She vows to follow through one job from beginning to the end and may honestly try. She can’t. As soon as she gets to the midway point, she begins champing at the bit, eager to turn down that undiscovered path that seems to promise so much more in the way of excitement.
Highly emotional, she can run through the gamut from A to Z in the same time that others travel from A to B. It’s as difficult for her to commit herself to a single emotion as it is to commit herself to a single lover, a single job, or a single plan.
A bewildering and complex woman, a gay and lovely comrade, a vivacious life-enhancer-she is also subject to dark moods of self-doubt, an absolute terror of the unknown. That’s when she needs a strong shoulder to lean on.
Although she is warm and affectionate, there are many who regard her as cold blooded. That’s because she tends to rely on intelligence rather than emotions.
Gemini is ruled by Mercury, planet of the mind. You must meet her on her own high intellectual level.
Don’t try to tie her down. She’s a free spirit, not a bird for anyone’s gilded cage. Nothing lifts her spirits more than to arrive at a place she likes or to leave one she doesn’t. That applies to her relationships with people as well as places.
She demands mental compatibility in a sexual partner and will not be relegated to an inferior position.
As a result, she tends to make a better career woman than housewife. If she chooses, she can do both jobs well. But if she’s forced to do both, she will quickly rebel.
She is prone to become involved with many men, particularly in her youth. Usually she is not content to devote herself to remaking and rearranging the life and character and career of only one man.
She is also constantly changing and rearranging, re-decorating, looking for a new place to live, trying new foods, new fad diets, new amusements-never quite content with the way things are. When not working on herself and her immediate surroundings, she will be working on her lover-trying to improve him. Perhaps this helps to explain why so many attractive Gemini women remain single. There is nothing she can do about this trait, so her man must learn to put up with it. Change is part of her life pattern – the one thing she can’t change!
She likes luxury and will try hard to attain it. That includes using her sex appeal. Because she is so detached emotionally, it’s easy for her to use sex as a weapon. And she has all the charm and imagination needed to make the weapon work for her.
In her relations with men, she often plays what appears to be a heartless game. But an abused lover is usually willing to forgive and forget—if she’ll take him back.
Those who can keep up with her will find the experience most rewarding. After all, where else can you find a woman who makes your life half as interesting? She’s entrancing, exasperating – and all woman.
HER SEX LIFE
She needs no special setting or locale. The back seat of a car at the local drive-in movie or even a balcony seat in the local movie theater is perfectly adequate.
Her main requirement is a lover who knows how to take enough time. For she won’t be rushed.
Her lovemaking mood can change with startling abruptness—particularly if the man comes on too strong. She wants to establish her own rate of progress, and woe betide the lover who tries to speed matters to a quick conclusion. She can turn on enough refrigeration to chill the ardor in any man’s veins.
Allow the right mood to develop, until the oneness of desire unites you. She enjoys the whole gamut from verbal byplay to titillation, from sensual excitement to lasciviousness. She will repay your patience with her own brand of sexual exuberance – and that’s all any man could ask for!
But a lover who wants to keep her interest longer should be aware that, apart from the basic sexual urge, Gemini is looking for an ideal. A relationship for her has to be an embracing communion that includes the physical and the spiritual, the romantic and the practical.
She is often the aggressor. Recent studies have shown that the sexually aggressive female doesn’t turn off men. Men are usually grateful for overt and explicit advances. Take a Gemini woman boating on the lake, and she may quickly indicate that she’d prefer you to put your own oar in. Take her on a picnic for two, and she may bring along a nice cuddly blanket and a pillow. After all, there’s no sense eating on the hard cold ground!
She can be quick tinder. As with men born under this sign, it is not a need for sex or even the pleasurable sensations derived from it that provides the motivation. She is simply curious. And she is never embarrassed by her behavior, because she never adheres to any standard but her own.
One Gemini woman, about forty and not particularly attractive, told me her method for stirring a cloddish lover’s libido. She chooses a nice private corner table in a dimly lit bar, unzips his fly while they are having drinks, masturbates him, and catches his semen in her half-empty liquor glass. Then while he’s pulling himself together, she twirls the glass gently and slowly finishes her drink. That’s a message no man has ever failed to get—or remember!
Gemini always likes to do two things at one time.
In foreplay, she will combine deep kissing with manual stimulation of other erogenous zones. While performing fellatio, she will tantalize a lover with a delicate finger massage on the abdomen or by seizing a buttock in each hand to lift and pull in time with her oral manipulations. She has good intuitions about lovemaking and devises many delightful and daringly different variations.
One lovely Gemini woman I know only enjoys building up to sex with the aid of fine French champagne. She takes a lover into the bathtub and uncorks a bottle of the bubbly. The spray directed at the genital area excites them both. She showers her lover with the rest of the bottle, letting the liquid drip in little rivulets down the thighs. Then she laps it up and up – and up.
The Gemini female is always seeking more satisfaction from sex. Impelled by her restless imagination, her endless curiosity, she has intercourse more frequently than women born under other signs and tries various kinds of far-out experimentation. She is frequently bisexual (that duality again!), and in love affairs with members of her own sex prefers to alternate taking the woman’s or the man’s role.
In making love with a male partner, she is sometimes inclined toward the sadistic. She will practice such delights as squeezing a man’s testicles while copulating, leaving him torn between exquisite pain and exquisite pleasure.
In her search for ultimate ecstasy, she is also drawn to fetishes. She can be aroused quite easily by body odors, that of a woman menstruating or a man perspiring heavily, the damp emanation from his testicles or the faint odors from his soiled shorts. The full range of fetishes is her range, but she is more physically than emotionally excited by them. Curiosity, not real kinkiness, is the name of her game.
Like male Gemini, she is interested in sex gimmicks.
One of her favorites is the twin golden balls. She inserts the two small balls deep into her vagina and then, lying on her stomach or bending over a chair, is entered from the rear by the male. While he pushes in and out gently, the massaging motion of the gold balls impels her to orgasm after orgasm. Why gold, or at least gold-painted balls? Well, Gemini likes luxury—and if she wants to be her own kind of ball-buster, why argue?
FIRST MOVES
In the first minute you’ll feel as if you’ve known Gemini forever. Conversation overflows with ideas, witticisms, interesting experiences. You’re laughing before you know it. Life seems much more exciting than just before you met.
I try to have two Gemini people at any party because then I don’t worry about its being a success.
Gemini won’t allow a group to slide off into apathy.
Their vibrant magnetism can light up a room like a pinwheel of lights, and they treat boredom like a personal enemy.
It’s always best to keep Gemini guessing. They are piqued by uncertainty. Try making a date in which he or she won’t know where you’re going until you get there. And make sure it isn’t too disappointing when you do! Wining and dining with Gemini is never enough; it should be a new or unusual place.
It needn’t be expensive (though Gemini won’t mind that), but it definitely has to be different.
Be alert and lively if you want to attract Gemini to you. Don’t let on too soon that you are fascinated by them. They prefer a little mystery and are tantalized by those who hold something in reserve, indicating that they have secret depths or undisclosed meanings. Remember: Gemini is eternally curious.
The key word is imagination. Take him or her to that really exceptional party where celebrities are guests or where brilliant conversation or fun games will be played. If all else fails, try a masquerade party.
The ingenuity required to create a really striking costume will intrigue Gemini.
Don’t pass up daytime events such as art museums – especially private showings – afternoon concerts or library exhibits. Gemini is an intellectual!
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On a date avoid the routine neighborhood movie or restaurant. Go roller-skating or to a roller derby, play miniature golf, watch a lacrosse match, attend an offbeat lecture on yoga. Introduce Gemini to those “socially awkward” friends whose genuine qualities no one has ever been able to bring out. Gemini will soon have them displaying facets of their character and revealing things about their background that not even you suspected. Let Gemini do the talking. They are spontaneous self-starters, and all you have to be is a good listener.
Wear them out with listening, and they’ll talk themselves into falling in love with you.
When you’re going out, try to put that celebrated Gemini duality to work for you. Never plan a dinner or a movie. Plan both. If Gemini male can’t afford to pick up a dinner check, suggest ice cream afterward or a late snack and coffee. When you’re talking about the movie you’ve just seen (or whatever), don’t be reluctant to begin a few amorous preliminaries. Geminis of both sexes know how to keep two interesting activities going at one and the same time!
By all means, cultivate their family. Be agreeable if they suggest an evening watching home movies or if they trot out the family album of photographs. You can always turn on the hi-fi. Gemini won’t mind, for they can pay attention to both.
If you have extremist or fanatical convictions in either religion or politics, you won’t get along well with Gemini. They see everybody’s side of the question all too clearly. They are liberal and tolerant by nature, and narrowminded people won’t get far with them.
Geminis love to gossip, so save up what juicy tidbits you read in newspapers or magazines or hear about friends and acquaintances. They will weigh in with some occasional scathing comments, especially in the sphere of morality, but don’t take that seriously.
It isn’t a clue to how Gemini will behave when you pop the proposition to her or let him know you’re willing to hear him pop it. They hold one set of opinions about others’ behavior and an entirely different one about their own.
Don’t expect them not to kiss and tell, however.
They will.
EROGENOUS ZONES
The hands and arms up to the shoulder are especially sensitive areas. Gemini women are responsive to hand-kissers; Gemini men like to have their fingers sucked slowly, one at a time.
For either sex, try running your hand lightly over Gemini’s arm. Barely touching the skin will raise goosebumps-almost as if the nerve endings were attempting to touch you back. The accidental caress of fingertips on a hand can send shivers of delight up their spines. Kissing on the inside of their arms is a special treat. For an interesting (and provocative) variation, move your lips and tongue lightly from the elbow to the armpit. You can practically sense the signals of desire fashing.
LAST MOVES
How to break off the affair? Simple. The method can be summed up under one heading: Be boring.
Don’t communicate. When you do, tell long-winded stories in exhaustive detail. Gemini will listen with the look of someone drowning in a vat of peanut butter.
Discuss controversial subjects. Gemini hates quarrels. And while you’re about it, don’t let Gemini get a word in edgewise.
Tell your problems in tiresome detail. Gemini finds other people’s problems depressing.
Be impatient and temperamental. They can’t stand it.
Always go to the same places, see the same people, do the same things, tell the same jokes.
When you make love, do it in the same way, even in the same place. Don’t change any of the preliminaries. By all means, talk about it at length afterward.
Take the dark view of everything. Gemini is a supreme optimist. Let them know that no matter how bad you think today is, tomorrow will get worse.
Restrict their freedom of movement. In fact, invent reasons for staying home night after night. Insist on help with housework—-particularly the dullest chores.
Have your most boring friends over for the most inane evening you can endure.
When the last guest leaves, Gemini will be leaving too – never to return.
YOUR SENSUAL GUIDE
GEMINI and LIBRA: An attractive, interesting pairing.
Both are affectionate, and their lovemaking is likely to become fervent, Neither is jealous or possessive, and their temperaments interact to stabilize each other. Both are willing to experiment with sex. They should enjoy an affair. In marriage, especially if Libra can convince Gemini to watch the pocketbook, they have an excellent chance for happiness.
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